Sunday, July 11, 2021

Quick Thoughts | Fire in Paradise: An American Tragedy


Rating ⭐⭐

This one is personal for me.

In November of 2018 the Camp Fire raged, completely destroying Paradise, California. In short order, roughly 27,000 people lost nearly everything - and at least 85 lost their lives.

After such a horrific event, the victims and survivors, deserve to have their stories told. This book does that, but only sort of - and not very well.

I understand that with a tragedy of this magnitude, telling every single story is not possible. I believe they chose to focus on people who represented a wider cast. A firefighter who drove his bulldozer into the fire to do his job, a police officer who recorded with his body cam even as he thought he wouldn't make it out, a woman who left their home while her father stayed behind to fight the blaze, and a mother who had just given birth are among those chosen. There are many others we meet along the way, some survive and some do not. Still, the narrative left me feeling that, had I not already had a personal connection to the story, there was so much more missing.

One of my very good friends lived in Paradise then, and due to the miracle of her home surviving when nearly every other home in her neighborhood was destroyed, she lived there up until very recently with her husband and children. The photos and videos and maps she sent me that day, and in the days after their evacuation, are seared into my brain. I cried watching the video of her actual evacuation that she recorded as they drove; there literally really was fire everywhere. It terrified me for her even after I knew that she was safe, just seeing what she had seen. The stories she told of her various family members also evacuating that day were terrible, and I can't begin to imagine what it was like. Luckily they all survived, though most lost their homes and even beloved pets as the fire quickly spread.

Side note: my friend's sister and brother-in-law are mentioned in the book, yet much of the information is inaccurate, so it makes me wonder what else is not correct either.

Really, the fire was so massive and contains so many stories, that I expected more from the book. it came in at 229 pages. How is that possible for the most devastating fire in California's history, and the sixth worst fire in the history of the United States? The story isn't even over yet. The window to file lawsuits just closed at the end of March - three months ago.

I don't understand writing a book when the story isn't complete yet. The fire happened nearly three years ago now, so it's not like it was a rush job to make money of this big tragedy. Why not just wait for some kind of closure, then tell the WHOLE story?

Saturday, July 10, 2021

Stacking the Shelves #154

   


Stacking the Shelves is a weekly feature hosted by Reading Reality. It is a chance to showcase all the goodies you've collected throughout the week, whether they're bought on-line or in-store, an ARC or a final copy, borrowed from a friend or the library, physical or digital, etc.

NetGalley ARCs

Prime First Reads

Library Treasures

Happy Reading!
Sarah

Friday, July 9, 2021

Quick Thoughts | Titanic and the Making of James Cameron


Rating ⭐⭐⭐

The author is kind of a toad who REALLY doesn't like DiCaprio at all, or Hollywood much either it seems. The fifteen year old in me wants to fight her.

The adult in me recognizes this is decent work otherwise, detailing Cameron's passion for underwater exploration, telling the story right, and doing it well.

NetGalley ARC | Daughters of Edward I


I received a free digital ARC from the publisher via NetGalley in exchange for an honest review.

Rating ⭐⭐⭐

I appreciate the author's purpose here, to shed more light on women of the middle ages who deserve the spotlight every bit as much as their fathers, sons, brothers, uncles, and nephews. I have many of her other titles on my TBR and plan to read them in due time.

Even so, something about this one did not work as well for me as I hoped it would. Still, it's not a terrible book at all. It is a decent addition to the plethora of work we currently have on the period.

I do know quite a bit about their parents, Edward I and his beloved wife Leonor of Castile. Their story is one that is not all that common in the middle ages - a marriage that truly seemed to be one of love and partnership. Altogether the couple had fourteen children, possibly fifteen even, but only six survived childhood. Five of those six were daughters...and then there's Edward II.

Side note - I feel bad for Edward II. He wasn't really cut out to be king. He was much more content hanging out with regular people, doing regular non-royal things. And how can one possibly expect to live up to the legacy of their father, when said father is Edward I, if they're not ready of the job anyway? It helped him in no way with the attention he gave his favorites, but I really wish he had just been allowed to go on his merry way and not be king; his rumored violent death was unnecessary.

Now, onto the stars of the show.

There's Eleanor of Bar, Joan of Acre, Margaret of Brabant, Mary of Woodstock, and Elizabeth of Rhuddlan.

Each woman shines on her own as we meet these five independent and sometimes headstrong women who at times defied expectations and made decisions for themselves. Not always, and we are not talking about some secret feminist manifesto here, but at various times in their lives each showed she was more than capable of taking her life in her own hands to decide what she wanted.

I'm personally partial to Mary, who was forced into a nunnery, but often left because she wanted to. While it was practical for large families with many daughters to send a few to nunneries, Mary was not always so keen on the idea. She did her duty as a daughter of a king, but she also managed to be true to herself as she travelled around the country.

I'm also keen on Joan, who defied her father by choosing her second husband for herself and even marrying him in secret. The secret was necessary due to the fact that he was no where near her social equal - a squire in Edward I's household. Edward was busy arranging her second marriage, no idea that she was already married. She knew she was in big trouble, so naturally she sent her children to visit him, in order to soften him up before she broke the news. It didn't work and instead landed her second husband in prison. Over time Edward relented for a couple reasons. Firstly because Joan was pregnant and there was no going back. Secondly, and more importantly to me, was Joan's statement on love and marriage...

"It is not considered ignominious, nor disgraceful, for a great earl to take a poor and mean woman to wife; neither, on the other hand, is it worthy of blame, or too difficult a thing for a countess to promote to honor a gallant youth."


The book is incredibly thorough and well-researched. The main issue for me was that is sometimes got repetitive. Someone already introduced would be introduced again later. On the other hand, for those who are less familiar with people of the period, this might have been useful in order to keep track of everyone.

That leads to my second issue - everyone under the sun was included, even more distant relatives who were not necessary in the telling of the lives of these women, seeing as how they're the ones the book is supposed to be about. And it is, don't get me wrong. I personally could have done without the extras.

I did enjoy seeing the daughters "grow" so to speak, and how their lives changed throughout not only their father's reign, but that of their brother's and then their nephew's. Seeing how they stayed connected, or didn't, was fascinating. All the while we are also given glimpses of the marriage and lives of Edward and Leonor, which I loved as well.

There is a lot of information here, especially given the period's penchant for husbands dying young, so multiple marriages abound - thus, so do many, many children. The author includes a sort of who's who at the end of the text, including who married who and when, which would be useful in a hardcopy so as to flip back and forth as needed.

Overall this is a valuable contribution, even if at times a bit bogged down by the monotony of birth, marriage, death; wash, rinse, repeat. Even so, the author brings the women to life and we are given another glimpse of a world long gone.

Recommended.

Wednesday, July 7, 2021

The Best Laid Plans...

LOOK WHAT I GOT TODAY!!!

I spent a good bit of time yesterday responding to comments and visiting blogs. It was great to "see" everyone again and find out what you all have been up to. I took a break and read for a while, with the intention of finishing up today.

BUT!

I bothered Dan Jones enough I guess, and look what NetGalley request was approved when I woke up!

I mean, I don't condone harassing authors on Twitter for NetGalley approval requests, it is kind of rude and a waste of their time.

HOWEVER...

October 26th is a long way off (when my pre-ordered copy will arrive!) and my request was just sitting there, doing nothing, not being approved or denied.

And I kind of feel like at this point, Dan Jones almost expects this level of crazy from me. (If you're unfamiliar with what I am talking about, Dan Jones is my favorite historian of all time. I got to meet him on his Templars book tour in 2017. We obviously became BFFs. You can read about it HERE.)

So, I will be reading this one today since Eleanor is at her dad's, and get back to blog-hopping later this afternoon/evening.

Happy Reading!
Sarah

Tackling the TBR Week 25: July 1 - July 7, 2021

      


I am now entering year three of Tackling the TBR. Slowly but surely I have made big strides in getting by TBR under control. When I first started in 2019, my TBR was topping out at over 5,000 books. I don't know that I will ever get below 500, but a #BookDragon can dream!


I will be posting on the 7th, 14th, 21st, and the last day of the month. Feel free to join in if you'd like!


Previous Week's TBR Total: 2,876


Currently Reading


Books Added to TBR


Books Removed from TBR: 0



Books Read




Books DNF-ed: 0




Duplicates Removed: 0


New TBR Total: 2,875


Any of these catch your eye? Have you already read any? Let me know!


Happy Reading!

Sarah

Monday, July 5, 2021

Grandpa Update

 First I want to thank everyone for their kind messages regarding my previous note about my grandpa, and thus my recent major lack of activity. I really appreciate the thoughtful messages here, Twitter, Facebook, etc.

Grandpa was able to come home on Friday evening, such a relief. He has an infection for which he is taking antibiotics. I was able to set up physical therapy for him to come to the house, which will help that leg where the infection started to regain strength.

I was at the hospital daily, and I was glad this happened while Eleanor and I were home. This way I was not hundreds of miles away, relying on text and phone call updates from my mom and family.

Part of the issue is that my grandpa is stubborn, and many times I am the only one he will listen to (I am the oldest grandchild and was the only for many years. I have a special bond with my grandparents that my cousins just can't replicate). I basically told him he has to do what the doctors tell him or he will not get to go home. He knows all of this and understands. He just sometimes thinks his way is better. It is both endearing and frustrating.

Eleanor and I headed home early Sunday after spending most of Saturday with my grandparents as well - making sure they had everything they needed, helping my grandpa organize his new meds, etc.

I talked to my grandparents yesterday afternoon and will talk to them again later today. It's a major relief to know they're doing well. Grandpa sounds like his old self again. Grandma is glad that everything is alright again. I am so grateful and relieved that this was a short hospital stay and that I could be there through it.

Thank you again, from the bottom of my heart.

Happy Reading!
Sarah

Prime First Reads | The Receptionist

 

Rating ⭐⭐

When one possible sociopath (the wife) and another definite sociopath (the affair) cross paths because they are in relationships with the same man, this is what happens...

Nothing.

At least, nothing for a majority of the book. The intro was gripping and I expected the majority of the book to keep my attention in some kind of way. It did not. It was basically the husband being a lying, cheating, drug-addicted douchebag, the all-knowing wife planning on how to exit the marriage while lamenting her pregnancy, and the affair being a fucking weirdo ON TOP of being a sociopath who beat the bejeezus out of her grandmother many years ago, after her mom at one time tried to kill her with a knife.

The ending was incredibly cheap. It was not the shock that I think the author hoped it would be. I was left incredibly annoyed by what was happening when my suspicions were confirmed during the 911 call made by the wife, which had actually been introduced in the very beginning though at that point we did not know who made the call.

The epilogue, written by the daughter as her diary, wrapped everything up and she is the only character I felt anything for. This poor girl has to live with the entire town knowing what happened to her parents - at least, what the evidence looked like. The "official" story is not the actual truth, but no one will ever know that.

I've said before that I enjoy unreliable narrators. Sociopaths are sometimes the best kinds.

But the author really ruined it with the ending.

If you can get it for free and are still interested, have at it. Otherwise, pass. Basically, don't pay for this one.

Saturday, July 3, 2021

Stacking the Shelves #153

  


Stacking the Shelves is a weekly feature hosted by Reading Reality. It is a chance to showcase all the goodies you've collected throughout the week, whether they're bought on-line or in-store, an ARC or a final copy, borrowed from a friend or the library, physical or digital, etc.

None again!
Obviously we've had major health-related things going on with my grandpa this week, which I talked about HERE, so book acquisition has not been important. But I still want to see what you've gotten ahold of this week.

I also posted some things on the 30th you may have missed.




Happy Reading!
Sarah