
Reviews, recommendations, memes, and general book-related musings on my favorite topics.
Tuesday, July 15, 2025
Book Review | Damnation Island: Poor, Sick, Mad, and Criminal in 19th-Century New York

Tuesday, June 6, 2023
Book Review | Life at the Dakota: New York's Most Unusual Address

Friday, July 16, 2021
NetGalley ARC | Maiden Voyages: Magnificent Ocean Liners and the Women Who Traveled and Worked Aboard Them

I received a free digital ARC from the publisher via NetGalley in exchange for an honest review.
Rating ⭐⭐⭐
I probably would have given this four stars, or at least three and a half, if I would not have had to read about the journey of the mother of the worst president in the history of the United States.
Aside from that drivel, this was a book packed with tons of interesting anecdotes and gossip and I feel the author did a fantastic job portraying life at sea for these women and how their work evolved over time.
I enjoy this period of travel. I love that the author focuses specifically on women and how they made a living on the massive liners that once ran regularly between the US and Europe.
I appreciate that she focused on a a wide variety of women, from all walks of life. We read of celebrities, artists, and the wealthy travelling for pleasure, migrants and refugees seeking safety and a new life, as well as the women who worked for the great shipping companies, sending their wages back home to help care for parents and siblings.
I found women on the crew to be of the most interest to me. I admire these women who worked these long, hard hours at sea to provide for their families. Violet Jessop is mentioned here and I absolutely recommend her autobiography, which I wrote about HERE. Not only did Violet survive the sinking of Titanic, but not long after she survived the sinking of the Britannic (Titanic's sister ship) as well. Her book is a wonderful look into her life, in which the famous and not-so-famous shipwrecks play but a small part. She had even been aboard the Olympic in 1911 when it collided with the HMS Hawke.
There were times when the narrative was very slow and felt like a slog. This could be a personal thing, as we learn plenty about those who travelled by liner because they had the money to do so, sailing back and forth between the Old World and the New. Still, it did take me a bit to finish this one and some passages and stories were not nearly as interesting as others.
There were times when the book became a bit repetitive as well, especially when stories were similar. Not always, but enough to be noticeable.
I never really thought about until this book, just how critical this work was for women who sought independence and a way to support themselves. To say that it changed countless lives would not be an overstatement. Slowly but surely, as women began travelling more, the need for stewardesses arose to help tend to them aboard the ships. That role of stewardess even evolved over time as some women were able to become conductresses and coordinate activities for the passengers. And then as two world wars came, women were able to stay aboard as nurses and continue to make a life for themselves.
Overall I appreciate the author's work and the research that went into the book. She's given a voice to many women who otherwise might remain unknown to us today.
Saturday, June 19, 2021
NetGalley ARC | The Deviant's War: The Homosexual vs. the United States of America

I received a free digital ARC from the publisher via NetGalley in exchange for an honest review.
Rating ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
This one took me much longer to read than I care to admit, but I am not sure why. it is exactly the kind of history I would want to read, history that is nearly lost to us, because it occurred a generation before Stonewall. It very well could simply have been the time frame in which I was reading it - a lot happened last year, to say the least.
Prior to reading this, I had no idea who Frank Kameny was. I am so glad I stuck with it, because it is one of the best books I read last year, despite it taking me a while to get through.
Highly gifted and evident from a young age when he taught himself to read at four, Kameny's path should have been easy. By age six he knew he wanted to be an astronaut. Yet life would get incredibly painful and complicated for him in 1957, just twelve short years after fighting for our country in WWII. It was in that year Kameny was called to Washington where he was to meet with officials who had reason to believe he was a homosexual - the kiss of death for one's career when security clearance is required.
After a series of insanely humiliating interviews, Kameny was relieved of his duties in Hawaii. He was not the first to be fired for being gay, nor was he the last. What makes Kameny stand out though, is that he fought back - taking on the US government.
Kameny became an early leader in the fight for gay liberation, when those words did not yet even go together. Kameny refused to be silent and simply accept his dismissal. He began putting together the arguments that formed the basis of the broader movement that we know today.
Kameny is not without flaws and I find it refreshing that those were laid out in detail, just as the rest of his story was. A particular point of interest I want to touch on is the idea Kameny had in his head of respectability. He insisted on a very strict dress code at the protests he organized; he wanted to ensure that gay and lesbian protestors looked "employable". Even from the outside looking in, Kameny felt it was important to look the part instead of as an 'Other' that would potentially hurt the cause and there were extremely rigid guidelines he expected fellow picketers to follow. I find this to be an important mention because I feel like today people who are removed from the LGBTQIA+ community do not recognize the fact that there is conservatism there, just as we see in so many other aspects of society. Kameny wanted fellow protestors to remain what the time Period considered respectable. I think this is a thought that takes some getting used-to, considering how perspectives have changed so drastically over the decades in some ways, and in others not at all.
Kameny would spend much of the rest of his life dedicated to fighting for the rights of homosexuals specifically, though this broadened as the years went on. He founded the DC branch of the Mattachine Society - good Lord, the in-fighting sometimes! It grew incredibly frustrating to read, but Kameny never lost sight of the goal even through all of it. Gay and lesbian people deserved the same right as everyone else and he would not rest until he had done all he could to make it so.
There is so much information here, the author has meticulously researched his main subject and then placed him in the proper context of his time. The sheer amount of material he worked with is jaw-dropping, something like over 40,000+ documents which he weeded through in order to tell this story. It is an important one and needed to be told.
Highly recommended.
Sunday, February 21, 2021
Publisher Gift (via NetGalley) | Prisoners of War: What Monuments to World War II Tell Us about Our History and Ourselves

I received a free digital ARC from the publisher via NetGalley in exchange for an honest review. (In this case, the publisher contacted me by email, and directed me to NetGalley if I was interested.)
Rating ⭐⭐⭐⭐
The importance of this book cannot be overstated. it is a timely look at our relationship with statues dedicated to history. One only has to look at the arguments made against removing confederate statues from public spaces to see the relevance. (Side note: pull all that bullshit down and stick it in a museum, with context, where it belongs. There are no heroes of the confederacy and not a single one of those men should be honored for their actions. They fought to keep slaves and no amount of supposed 'good' they ever did can make up for that fact. Fuck THAT bullshit narrative.)
Anyway.
Addressing this issue of accepting statues at face-value of being accurate representations of a moment in time in our history of war is done quite well within these pages. The author not only looks at how these monuments are written about, talked about, and viewed in the US, but looks at various monuments to the very same war and how they are viewed in countries around the world. In total he discusses 25 different monuments, from the US, to Italy, to Jerusalem, China, and many in between.
The photographs are stunning and for once I was glad to have received the file for my laptop only instead of my Kindle. Even though I hate sitting at my laptop to read, the photos alone were nearly enough to make it worth it. This truly is a book to have a physical copy of to peruse at your leisure. I don't feel it is a book meant to be read quickly or in just a couple of sittings. It will definitely give anyone pause who has visited these sites, and perhaps grapple with how one originally interpreted the monument, compared to its original and intended purpose.
One of the biggest take-aways from this book is the vast difference in how World War II is memorialized. Here in the US, our statues are to honor the heroes and our triumph over true and despicable evil. Yet around the world, monuments are most often dedicated to the victims - such as Italy's Shrine to the Fallen or The A Bomb Dome in Hiroshima. I think this again confirms the fact that the US often equates winning and patriotism - though it must also be remembered that aside from Pearl Harbor, World War II was not fought here. The monuments to the victims and the fallen are most often literally on the site of the atrocities they represent.
Lowe provides much context for the various events being commemorated by each statue. The research is thorough and he writes in an engaging way. He certainly gives the reader a lot to think about - both regarding those he is writing about, and the specific issue in the US regarding confederate monuments still standing.
When we come upon these monuments, either because we've specifically taken a trip to see them or we stumble upon them by accident, we must not stop asking ourselves to look beyond the scenery as it being another pretty picture for photo ops. We have to consider the original intended purpose of the statue, what aspect of history is being told, and whether or not it is actually accurate in its depiction.
Highly recommended.
Tuesday, December 29, 2020
NetGalley ARC | The Plaza: The Secret Life of America's Most Famous Hotel

Saturday, December 26, 2020
NetGalley ARC | Growing Up Bank Street: A Greenwich Village Memoir

I received a free digital ARC from NYU Press via NetGalley in exchange for an honest review
Friday, December 4, 2020
NetGalley ARC | Gilded Age Cocktails: History, Lore, and Recipes from America's Golden Age

I received a free digital ARC from NYU Press via NetGalley in exchange for an honest review.
Rating ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
First let's take a moment and admire that cover, shall we? So simple and elegant, but very powerful. I don't even like martinis and the moment I saw this one I thought, "Sure why not?"
This gem of a book makes me want to through a Gilded Age themed dinner party and serve each and every one of these delicious treats. I can't of course, because of COVID, but some day, right? We can dream at least.
The books is divided into sections that touch on various aspects of life/society of the time, and the many drinks that went along with them. My personal favorite was the section related to signature drinks of the Ivy League schools. You don't have to go to an elite East Coats school to drink like it, as the recipes for each drink discussed is produced here for the reader.
One thing I really loved about this book was the history - big surprise. I thought it was so fascinating how the various drinks came to made, how bartenders' experimented with their craft in order to come up with new drinks to satisfy patrons. Seeing the evolution or creation of so many of the drinks we know and (sometimes) love today - such as the Manhattan - was a fun bit of history to read about.
I really love books like this, that focus on a specific micro history and encourage anyone with similar interests to give this one a read. You might just find a new favorite drink!
Wednesday, October 28, 2020
NetGalley ARC | Enchanted New York: A Walk Along Broadway Through Manhattan's Magical Past

Saturday, June 20, 2020
NetGalley ARC | The House on Henry Street: The Enduring Life of a Lower East Side Settlement

Sunday, March 22, 2020
Prime First Reads | The Club King: My Rise, Reign, and Fall in New York Nightlife

Gatien is the first to admit that some of his success had to do with the sheer luck of being in the right place at the right time. But even so, he was a born hustler who worked his ass off to climb higher and higher, to create the Next Big Thing. Also on display is his business acumen, and the amount of attention he paid to detail in order to keep things fresh and new in each of his clubs. He was involved in every aspect of the club, from the designs to the construction, choosing the right sound and light systems, the perfect artwork, the locations of the bars, and more. Gatien did not rely on the same gimmick for each place, and when he finally sold off his interests in all other clubs, sticking only to his New York playground, this is even more obvious. Gatien was willing to gamble and take chances that others might not have been, and it paid off in spades. He found unique buildings for his clubs to call home and that in itself was huge - abandoned buildings that served other purposes before became the places to be on any given night where the music pounded and the alcohol flowed. He also made some very astute observations early on that served him well over his a career - number one being that hiring a DJ to spin the music would cost far less than band fees. Another facet of the story I found especially interesting was that of how Gatien realized he could welcome the crowds that typically enjoyed hip-hop and rap, while also keeping the clubs free from violence. In that time, many clubs would not play this music because of the men and as a result, the violence that came with the male-dominated crowds. Gatien figured out that if he were to let women into the club for free throughout the early evening, and he put a limit on the amount of men let in at a time, then he could make bank on these hip-hop/rap nights while keeping everyone relatively safe. It definitely helped that Gatien employed great security teams, and patrons were searched before entering the clubs.
While I have few complaints about the book, there is one that has bothered me quite a bit. I can push aside the glossing-over of Gatien's surface-scratching-only drug-use that he managed to control for the most part, and even ignore the repetition of him needing to find the next big thing, getting restless whenever he achieved a new level of success. I can not though, overlook the relatively little space given to the Club Kids in general who made New York City nightlife into what it was. He does discuss Michael Alig and the murder of Andre "Angel" Melendez; it is interesting that he is very quick to distance himself from Melendez and say he was not welcome at any of Gatien's clubs. While doing so, he does maintain he worked with Alig for quite some time. It is interesting to note all the discrepancies related to the murder of Melendez. Some of those discrepancies have come from Alig and his roommate Robert Riggs. The stories range from Melendez being killed in self-defense by Riggs when he attacked Alig in an argument over a debt, to Riggs killing Melendez for Gatien because Gatien was under investigation for the rampant drug-use in his clubs. We will never know the whole story and I certainly did not expect it to be covered in-depth here. But I did expect much more about the Club Kids, the larger-than-life personalities who brought bodies back to the clubs after the initial scare of the AIDS crisis, when young men were dying at alarming rates and people were terrified to go out. It is quite flummoxing to me that a book about Peter Gatien and his clubs would not include significant amount of attention given to the scene at the time. They helped MAKE his clubs into the hot spots they became.
Gatien discusses at length the case built against him. It all really began when a teenager from New Jersey killed himself and club life was blamed for his tragic choice. From that moment, Gatien's days as the king of NY nightlife were numbered. He also discusses informants working against him, and does his best to discredit all of them, which he is pretty successful at. It became Giuliani's obsession, to bring Gatien down. The Feds were willing to pay many who themselves were still dealing drugs, breaking the laws themselves, in order to get Gatien. Lots of shady stuff all around going on, but I will leave that for you to discover. While Gatien was not found guilty of drug charges, he was charged and plead guilty to tax evasion. For that, he was deported back to Canada, unable to stay in the country he loved so desperately.
Overall, I really enjoyed this read. It is not without its problems, but the vicarious experience of club life in the 80s and 90s is worth the time. Here are a couple quotes I really liked, or had an impact on me as I read.
"The week after Biggie Smalls died at the tender age of twenty-four, Flex cued up 'Hypnotize,' and I watched as three thousand people in the club chanted along or silently wept. That night of mourning deepened the bonds of the community, getting beyond neighborhood rivalries or the East-Coast-vs.-West-Coats rap wars. The heartrending scene epitomized Tunnel Sundays for me. By design or by accident, we had managed to generate a real sense of kinship, an impression that everyone present was part of something great" (67%).
"I could have survived sleeping on a concrete shelf for a bed and eating shitty prison food. I could have faced being pummeled by repeated legal proceedings. But getting exiled from the land that I loved killed a part of my soul" (98%).
"A blackened shroud, a hand-me-down gown of rags and silk, a costume fit for one who sits and cries for all tomorrow's parties...Like Lou Reed and Nico, I'm feeling elegiac for all the good times that will never be. They won't come around like they did in the golden age. I was there, and if you were there, too, you know the truth. Those were the days when the party never ended, and it was goddamn fabulous" (99%).
Highly recommended.
Monday, July 8, 2019
Book Review: Beastie Boys Book

Tuesday, June 11, 2019
Book Review: Report From Ground Zero + Jon Stewart Kicking Ass

I was all set to do a double-review post with this book and another about September 11th, until I saw that Jon Stewart was trending on Twitter earlier this morning, and as I just checked again tonight, he still is.
I greatly admire Jon Stewart. I never missed an episode of The Daily Show when he hosted for all those years, and appreciated the fact that, while he clearly leans Liberal, he was willing to take any politician to task for being an idiot or doing something stupid. Throughout the election season I hoped and hoped and hoped he would come out of hibernation and sure enough, he appeared on Colbert's show and my heart was happy.
Since his retirement from the daily grind of news and politics, Stewart has not been idle. He has been an extremely active and vocal supporter of the First Responders Fund and today he was trending because once again, Congress can not get their shit together and do right by these brave men and women who ran into burning buildings in the hopes of rescuing as many as possible. Many have become dangerously ill in the aftermath and instead of doing the right thing and making funding for their care permanent, these assholes think that making the First Responders come back constantly to answer their stupid questions is a good idea.
Please watch this clip and listen to Stewart's verbal ass-kicking of those who could not even be bothered to show up for the hearing. Because of this event occurring today, this is why I felt I had to review this particular book on its own, because the men and women who ran in when everyone else was running out did their jobs exactly as they were supposed. The least we can do now is our jobs, and make sure they and their families are taken care of.
Sunday, April 28, 2019
Gone to New York: Adventures in the City

(only the first two minutes is really applicable)
Tuesday, December 4, 2018
Queen of Thieves: The True Story of "Marm" Mandelbaum and Her Gangs of New York

Rating: 0 Stars
Original review posted 12-4-18
Rating: 1.5 Stars